Flavours of Life!!

When I look at people, what do I see? I see a multi-layered pudding pie with many layers, made up of different flavors.Yes you got it right. But why?? Well you are about to know about it very soon. And trust me! No two people are made up of same set of flavors.

I feel that every layer is different with different texture, different color and obviously the different taste. And on the top of all this there is the most "beautiful" part, the most celebrated thing THE ICING.Well of course It is what that will make you wanna taste it. And hence no wonder why we all work so hard to get our icings right, isn't it??. Who doesn't want to be tasted or at least be admired never the less. 

We come across many people in our life.Some of 'em will like the icing you presented to them and may wanna take a bite, but not everyone would be "lucky" enough to taste you. The worst part is most people would just pass by. You will be just another "pudding pie" to them showcased in a grand bakery called WORLD.

Of all the people who tastes you, most of them would  just  poke their finger and 'll lick it with their tongue, they would never know your real taste.They might judge you on the basis  that and you just can not help. Well this is how things work in over here my friend. Only the few would grab a spoon and scoop in whole lot of slice of you, they will eat the icing first well of course, and then they 'll very carefully pin point the layers they like the most and leave aside the rest just like that.
Count yourself lucky if you have found someone in your life who wants to taste each and every layer in you. You are one lucky chap to find people in life who want to eat through each and every flavor in deep inside. The flavors even you don’t know you are made up of. If a person eats through each flavor one by one relishing every bit of it, with mouth watering every time, then I can very confidently say that they love you truly. You mean a world to them. 

And the same things work the other way round too.You might not like the icings of people you meet everyday for the first instance. But grab a spoon, taste it and you might like it! There is a pudding lying somewhere in the world, made up of all the flavors you like. All you need is a bit of luck and some courage to look beyond the icing on the top!

Good Luck!! :)

“Everything in excess! To enjoy the flavor of life, take big bites. Moderation is for monks.”

My College Life

College life

It’s fun,

It’s crazy,

It’s Awesome.

We all make new friends

And Memories with them

To cherish till the life ends.

Studying,

Was boring as ever.
While bunking classes,

We all stood together

Those passing comments,

Gossiping in classes,

And pulling the legs.

Copying those assignments

Wasn’t it fun??

My first Crush,

And the Adrenalin Rush..

Chatting, Planning and Texting,

And those phone tring trings..

Hanging out at Gm

Gheries in University,
eating at Nescafe,

And asking friends to pay

Those curious moments

Those were crazy.

Last night Studies

Notes and Xerox Copies

Writing on desk before the exam

Made it all too easy.

Late Night masti

Those birthday Bumps

Those last movie shows

And those Combos at Dominos

Every moment lived was just awesome.

It was not fun all the time though

Yes there were some tight situations and some low

Those Serious moments

We Stood for each other

And saw each other through

This College life

May be was not perfect

But truly I am a better person now

I will miss anything for the first time in my life,

I avow!!

The Errs of envy

We hate, we Loathe

We Love, We envy

And sometimes both

Love, dawns the envy

Dies it never,

Even after the love demise

Envy eats nothing

But our own heart

We envy smile,

Just to frown n fall apart

Pride, Envy and Avarice

Burns us all from inside

For envious arth those

Who see merits only in others

And forget there own pros…

Here I am sitting Alone

Here i am sittin alone.
And there are lots of thoughts to ponder upon
There is lot of restlessness
As if life is missing some kind of finesse
Between all the musing and reflection
I feel all I need is some meaningful action
All i wonder at the end of the day,
Is every thing under control and gay?












Here i am sittin alone,
And these thoughts are here like a stumbling stone
I am Chewin my lips
Feelin numbness on my finger tips
I want a sleepy sleep
But a path to peaceful slumber seems very steep
WHY am i not able to feel that completeness?
What is all i need to fill up this hollowness?
All the answers to these questions i wanna know
To bring some pace to my life Which has anyway become So slow....

Being Single

“ Yaar apne naseeb ch ta pyar hi ni hai”(I don’t have love in my destiny), the most common(lamest) excuse given by us, for being single. Every (‘single’) person at some point of time, yearn for a partner (opposite sex), no matter how much he/she may claim to be happy being single. The most common reason, I have found out after lot of deliberations and analysis, for being single, is the fear of admitting ones feeling for others. Fear and weakness need not be the part of what we call love and carry in our heart “love”. The net load of love should feed our desire to become stronger and it should help us realize that we are lucky to have discovered such an euphoria, therefore let it circulate in our veins and have it as an inspiration to diverge in infinity if you can afford so.

Though I may not be the biggest follower of what I believe or say, for it is always easy to find impressive words when you are writing an essay than to say just a few simple words to express your feelings to others. I might not be the victim of any one sided love frustration, but I have always found myself unable to submit myself, to my feelings. And that’s what I feel is a reason for me being single. I am  lucky to have some great friends who are always there to save me from  all the emptiness and hollowness you are supposed to get into when you are not seeing someone. Life is a continuous battle with one self and ones fears and friends always help you do that. Feel yourself counted if you have such people in your life.

It’s hard, not to be frustrated by things that happen when you are trying to make things work with a new person in life(supposed to be your girlfriend/boyfriend in coming up days). At times, the decisions a person makes, or the events that occur don’t have any rhyme or reason. What one person sees as a valuable quality, someone else will see it as a fault. What some people see as attractive, others do not. Predicting what a person will say, or do is hard, and damn near impossible. While it’s easy to read the unspoken signs of nature of their action, the only tried and true method to dating success are the guidelines presented by many successful daters. Even then, success isn’t guaranteed. One guideline is to remain optimistic. It’s hard to keep up a sense of optimism when the crazy, unknown happenings of another person’s preferences and wishes intersect with your own. Optimism often turns into confusion when you’re rejected because of a minor detail, or when someone don’t respond to your advances.

The biggest boom to the people who want to get into a relationship but don’t have the guts to show up their feelings right away is ‘TEXTING’. Texting has become the new dating and even if you  don’t like it and have been rebelling against this new phenomenon as much as possible, you cannot deny the fact that texting is just not only for quick “Hello’s”, “I’m on my way” and “Have a good Day” type of communications, it can be used for planning of dates, discussing relationship issues and most importantly it gives an easy way out to know a new person without encountering early awkwardness. Texting surely help 'single' people afloat in the world seemingly full of happy couples you tend to envy.

Now after all the considerations and speculations about being single, we can safely say that it might not be a rocket science to get into a relationship, but  if you are just fine with your relationship status then there is nothing to panic. Everyone is destined to meet that someone special at some point of time. And for those  in an urgency to break the shackles of single-hood, knowing the perspective of the person you like is most important tool. Perspective is a powerful and important. It helps shape a person’s view of life, while providing an understanding to the feelings a person would have, based on life’s actions and events. To best understand another person, understand their perspective first.

If you got

If you got games in your heart
WHY dont you play those with me
If i cannot teach you play better
I ll make sure you win

If you got fears in your heart
WHY dont you share those with me
If cannot make you feel better
I ll make sure i hold your hand everytime you are sacred

If you got dreams in your heart
WHY dont you see those with me
If i cannot create any miracle
I ll make sure all your nightmares are through

If you got tears in your eyes
WHY dont you shed those on me
If i cannot dry those forever
I ll make sure i catch those everytime they fall...

Soulful Music

Soulful Music is a cathartic experience which washes away the dust of daily life from the human soul. It invigorartes you, sooths your mind and takes away the trivial worries from your life. Music I have heard, has a power to kindle a lamp or soften a hard rock. It has a power to bend a knotted oak. It can make a poet out of a man.It can move the stiff limbs to dance. Music is a language of love, for it has got all the romance.

When ever I am sad or alone, I turn to music and music turns me on. Music always creates a milieu of gaiety and mysticism around me. I often rely on music to instil calm into my fickle mind.Music drives away all my anxieties and keeps me happy.

How Does It Feel?

How does it feel? When your words fell into deaf ears...
How does it feel? When you are without direction like a rolling stone...
How does it feel? When you end up just like a fool...
How does it feel? when you want to forget but you cant....
How does it feel? When you want to leave behind all the reasons to be messed...
How does it feel? When nobody listen as nobody care...
How does it feel? When you think of all such things all over again and again...

One life to Live

Who has seen a life after life
All i know is there is one life to love
So what good hatred will do
If you have just one life to love
Live the every moment of love
Love the every moment of life
Coz all you have is one life to love...

Growing

Growing is learnin and sharing with all
Growing is rising after a big fall
I grow with every new friend i make
And i grow even more when i keep it with everything on stake...
I grow everytime i realize my mistak
I grow everytime i improve upon my re-take
I may not win every time
Even if i try its just fine
  
If anger makes you frown,
Hatred and jealousy brings you down

Growth comes with happiness
Growth comes with satisfaction
Being rich wont make you happy
Being famous wont satisfy you
Its just that
If growing is all that it matters
I do that every day ...